Mrs. A: Boudoir and Autonomy
In a world filled with self-doubt & insecurities, the journey to rediscover oneself can often be a challenging & daunting task. For many, the idea of a boudoir session may seem intimidating, but for Mrs. A, it was so much more than just a confidence boost. This was a huge step towards her taking her body back for herself.
I received this text from Mrs. A the day after her session;
What made you choose Boudoir By Kayla for you boudoir experience?
Kayla. She is one of a kind and provides an individual experience to each of her clients. As someone with a history of SA, this can be a vulnerable experience. She made me feel seen, heard and valued. I could not have made the leap with just anyone.
What was your favorite part(s) of the experience?
What wasn't my favorite part?!
I love that she offers in person planning (optional) as for someone like me who does not like the unknown. It helped calm my jitters before the big day to know where I was going and get comfortable in the studio with Kayla (and see the closet and discuss outfits).
The photoshoot day was so fun and time flew by. If you choose to make a pinterest board..Kayla really takes the time to go through it and honor what you want in your photos. It really felt like it was just all about me.
The reveal was such a special time to relive the day all over again...I love that you don't just get sent your items or see them for the first time alone. This is something bigger and Kayla makes EACH step it's own special thing and it cultivates into this big reveal that makes it something so unique.
What were you nervous about before your session?
I was nervous I would not like the final photo reveal. I was excited but didn't have high expectations about how I would look in the photos...I do not generally like photos of myself...but then photo after photo in my reveal I was blown away. That is thanks to Kayla for seeing me as an individual and tailoring poses and angles to what looks best for ME. I could not believe how much I loved the finish product.
I was also worried about being able to choose certain things. I hate the color red on myself due to prior SA trauma and Kayla was so respectful of that and made sure that even the makeup artist knew ahead of time to remember to not suggest a red lip on me. Absolutely amazing.
Even months later, Mrs. A’s Designer Album is the perfect reminder of badass she is!
What are you taking away from your boudoir experience?
Myself. My confidence. My sense of worth. Sense of sexuality. I found my true self again. I look in the mirror and see who I am. I look in the mirror now and think dang...that’s me! All I saw in my photos was my true, imperfect but beautiful and STRONG self. And you can too if you just book!!
What advice would you give someone who is hesitant about to book their own boudoir experience?
Just because it feels scary doesn't make it wrong. Take a chance on yourself...you won't regret it. Kayla has your back and doesn't leave a single detail up to chance. You deserve this. If I can find myself again...learn to love myself through this journey then you can too.
